They’re indecisive.
Their inability to make decisions can drive you crazy. You might feel like you're making all the decisions, which can lead to resentment. Just try to understand that as the sign of the scales, your Libra is trying to find balance—they don't want to make the wrong choice, so they'd rather not pick anything. To help your Libra with their indecisiveness, give them just a few choices so they don't get overwhelmed. You might say, "Your turn to pick lunch. Are we doing Thai food or burgers? I could totally go either way."
They’re too flirty.
Libras flirt with everyone, which can be tough on their partners. Air signs are outgoing and super friendly, but your Libra might not know when to stop. They probably don't even realize that they're flirting with other people! Libras just want to be loved by everyone, so they don't think about how their flirtatious behavior can hurt. It's important to accept your Libra for who they are, but that doesn't mean you can't stand up for your feelings. You might say, "I noticed you were getting friendly with that girl. It made me feel uncomfortable—like I wasn't even there."
They’re self-centered.
Libras are too focused on themselves to pay attention to you. You've probably noticed that your Libra prefers to be the life of the party everywhere they go. This can make you feel ignored or neglected, especially if they never ask for your opinion or find out how you're feeling.
They’re superficial.
Appearances are everything to Libras and that can be a lot of pressure. After all, you might feel like you're not handsome or beautiful enough for them. Blame Venus! This planet rules Libra and it rules aesthetics which is why appearances are critical for a Libra. For instance, they might make a rude comment if you're looking a little sloppy or thrown together. To avoid their criticism, take time getting yourself ready before you see them. They'll appreciate that you look polished and put together.
They can be co-dependent.
Libras will jump into a relationship just for the sake of companionship. You may have noticed that Libra has never been single for very long—probably because being in a relationship is very important to them. While this doesn't sound like a problem, it can be an issue if you don't feel like you're a good match and they seem to be in a relationship just because they don't want to be alone.
They'll do anything to avoid conflict.
Libras have a hard time managing problems, so they ignore them. This can make it hard to deal with normal relationship concerns. They'd rather pretend like nothing is wrong or just tell you what they think you want to hear. You can encourage or inspire your Libra to do things or make changes, but don't push too hard or they may shut down.
They hide their feelings.
Libras are hard to get to know because they are afraid to open up. This sign doesn't like feeling vulnerable. They may open up over time, but they're default setting is to keep their emotions in check. To prevent issues, encourage them to share their feelings. For example: "You agreed to hang out this weekend, but I get the impression you'd rather do something else—I'm okay with that. What are your thoughts?"
They’re overly sensitive.
Libras tend to take everything personally, which can cause conflict. Just because they hide their feelings doesn't mean they aren't in touch with them—on the contrary. Libras take even constructive criticism personally and tend to blow comments out of proportion. You might feel like you can't say anything without them getting upset about it. If you bring up a concern, use language that describes how you feel instead of accusing them. For instance, instead of saying, "You flirt too much with other guys," say, "I feel hurt when I see you flirting with other guys."
They’re unreliable.
Libras often promise too much and then they can't deliver. In some ways, they can't help it—this sign doesn't like to disappoint people, so they can't say no to anything. Usually, they just take on too much and aren't able to follow through with the promises they made. For instance, maybe your Libra promised you they'd bring a bottle of wine to dinner and they show up empty-handed. In the future, you might preface your request by saying, "I know you've got a lot on your plate right now. If you don't have time to grab the wine, I can definitely get it. Just let me know."
They're habitual ghosters.
Libras will disappear without a word and you may never know why. Rather than confronting you to talk about what's going on in your relationship, they may suddenly stop returning your calls or just disappear from your life altogether. Again, it's because Libras don't do conflict. They assume you'll figure it out. Work on developing effective communication early on in the relationship so your Libra will feel more comfortable talking about things with you.
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