Make the first move if he asked you to.
Text him first since he's waiting for you to reach out. Did the Scorpio man give you his number and say something winning like, "Here's my number—text me"? If he did, take him up on it! After all, he already put himself out there by giving you his number. Now it's your turn to signal your interest. For a bolder initial text, send something like, "It's Maddie—you gave me your number last night. Are you free to meet up today?" or, "Hey, it's Jane from the club. How's it going?"
Thank him for the date if you two went out.
Send him this text to be polite and signal your interest. A thank you text sounds simple, but it does a few things: it makes it clear to your Scorpio guy that you enjoyed spending time with him and it opens the door for him to respond. Plus, with this friendly text you don't need to worry about appearing too eager. It's totally fine to keep your thank you text brief. A simple, "Yesterday was so much fun!" or, "I had such a great time last night. ????" works.
Reach out first if you think Scorpio is unsure what to do.
Message him first so he has to make a choice and respond to you. If Scorpio seems like an obsessive, brooding type it's because he is! You might not hear from a Scorpio guy first because he's too busy worrying about what to say, how to say it, and how you'll respond. Help the man out and just text him first by signaling your interest. He may appreciate it if you're specific. This way he won't overanalyze your text. Send a text like, "You + me + Indian food = ?" or, "I could wait for you to text, but I want to meet up!"
Send him a text if he seems shy.
Pique his interest so he starts texting back and forth. Scorpios can be overly cautious. He may overthink it when it comes to communicating with you, so text him something really interesting. A mysterious text can get him to break out of his shell and open the lines of communication. Here are a few other stimulating texts you could try: "Can I tell you a secret???" "There's something you probably don't know about me...????" "What's the weirdest date you've ever been on?"
Message him if you want to flirt.
Say something mysterious or playful to get him interested in you. Your Scorpio man is intense and passionate, but he's also got a playful side. To let him know that you get that, send him a flirty message. Use any of these to get started: "Who told you you could be so sexy?" "Has anyone ever told you that you're the strong silent type?" "When can I look at your handsome face again?" "Got time to make a girl/guy's day?"
Text first if you’re tired of waiting.
Send a text so you know exactly where you stand with him. Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the planet of transformation and change, which makes Scorpio very cautious—he's unsure of what to expect. They tend to observe before they engage. If you're done waiting for your Scorpio to make a decision, send them a text to force their response. Try a text like, "Just a reminder that I'm only a text away. ????" or "I know I should wait for you to text, but let's pretend like you did."
Shoot him a message if you felt a strong connection.
Use a text to build on the spark that you felt. Scorpio is about passion. They like it when people are upfront and solid about their intentions. If you let him know how you feel, you've made your interest totally clear. For example, text, "Just so you know: I'd be totally open to you asking me out for a date," or, "I think we have a real spark. What do you think?"
Message him if he posted on social media.
A text to show your curiosity can start an easy conversation. There's no pressure and you're subtly letting him know that you follow his accounts. For instance, text "OMG. Your dog is cuter than you if that's possible!" Make sure that you're only responding to the newest posts, so you don't come across as being a bit obsessive. Similarly, just message him about one post instead of several. This gives him a chance to respond.
Give him some space if you’re getting mixed vibes or he's rude.
Scorpios can be a bit moody or indecisive, so he may not know how he feels. If you couldn't tell whether or not he was interested when you last saw him or he was dismissive of you, he may not be worth pursuing. For instance, if he appeared bored or was even a little rude, you may be better off waiting or just moving on. You might feel stressed out if he seems to blow hot and cold. Ultimately, it's your call whether or not you want to connect with him.
Wait for him to text if you’re always the initiator.
See if your Scorpio guy puts in the effort or if you should move on. If you feel like you're always the one reaching out, it might mean that he's not as emotionally invested. Test this out by waiting instead of texting him first. If he waits an unacceptable amount of time, you might decide that he's not worth it. It's completely up to you to decide how often you expect him to text. Some people might be willing to wait a day or two, while others would wait up to a week. It's a matter of personal preference, so go with what your gut tells you.
Skip the text if you have nothing to say.
Scorpios are turned off by boring conversations, so don't text unless it's good! He probably won't respond to a simple, "Hi! How was your day?" or "What are you doing?" It's better to come up with a really unique text or not text him at all. Think of it this way—if he's interested in you and he hasn't heard from you in a while, he might start to wonder what you're getting up to. Then, don't be surprised if he's the one to text first!
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